
Amanda — Mental wellness coach
Grounded, compassionate, yours.
Chat with Amanda about what's heavy — no account neededAmanda is Verke's mental wellness coach. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Compassion-Focused Therapy — two approaches that share a quiet premise: the point isn't to argue yourself out of feeling what you feel. It's to make room for the hard stuff, loosen the grip of the inner critic, and still move toward what matters to you. You can be struggling and building skills at the same time.
ACT + CFT
Modality
Acceptance & compassion
Overwhelm
Focus
Stress, burnout, mood
Voice + text
Format
Up to 20 min calls
Values
Best for
Moving toward what matters
You can be struggling and building skills at the same time.
Who it's for
What Amanda helps with
- I'm feeling down. Feeling down is a common human experience. It can follow a hard event, slowly accumulate during stress, or sometimes seem to come out of nowhere — none of which makes it less real.
- Stress and worry. Stress and worry can feel constant in a fast-paced life. Your mind and body are responding normally to real pressures — you don't have to carry this alone.
- Sleep problems. Sleep difficulties touch every part of life — mood, attention, energy, patience. Many people face similar struggles, and there are real ways to move the needle.
- Life changes. Planned or unexpected, big transitions can unsettle the ground underneath you. Feeling destabilized during these times isn't weakness — it's being honest about what's happening.
- Low self-esteem. Struggling with self-worth doesn't reflect your actual value. Many people carry a harsh inner voice that never tells the whole story — Amanda works gently on that voice.
- Burnout. Burnout is what happens when prolonged stress empties the tank. It's not a personal failure — it's a signal that demands have outpaced your capacity to recover.
- Lacking purpose and meaning. Questioning your direction — or feeling oddly flat when things are technically fine — is part of the human experience. Many people go through seasons of feeling disconnected from what matters.
Modality
How Amanda guides you — Acceptance and Commitment Therapy + Compassion-Focused Therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy asks two questions: what matters to you, and what are you willing to feel in order to move toward it? Instead of trying to eliminate difficult thoughts, ACT helps you hold them with less struggle so they stop running the day. Compassion-Focused Therapy works on the inner voice — especially when it turns punishing — and builds a warmer, steadier way of being with yourself.
Amanda remembers what you've been working on across sessions, so you don't start from scratch each time. You can write in text, or switch to voice when a real conversation feels easier than typing. For the full explainers of the methods Amanda draws on, see Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT).
Try it
What a first conversation might look like
Hi — glad you made it here. No need to have it all figured out. What's been feeling heaviest lately, even if it's hard to put into words?- I can't seem to relax even when I have time. I had a whole Sunday off and I spent it anxious about Monday.
That makes sense given how long you've been running. A body that's been on high alert for months doesn't switch off on a calendar. It's not a willpower problem — it's a nervous system that hasn't had permission to land yet.- I hear that, but there's also this voice that says I'm being dramatic. Other people handle more than this. I should be able to take a day off without falling apart.
Notice how that voice speaks to you — would you speak that way to a friend running on empty? For this week, one small thing: when you catch the "I should" voice, try adding "…and I'm doing the best I can with what I have right now." Not to silence it. Just to make room for both.
Example conversation. Not a real user.
What people say about Amanda
Great coaching app — I've been using this app for almost a month now to help me navigate my emotions during a hectic time in my life and needless to say it is great. It addresses your opinions, gives you its input, and asks you questions regarding them. The AI is super interactive and offers tons of insight on many different situations. I would heavily recommend this app.
— PotatoSucker170 ★★★★★
I was completely burnt out from my job and couldn't see a way forward. Two months later, I've transformed my relationship with work and start to feel like myself again. Amanda helped me recognize my warning signs and develop practical strategies to recover.
— MaineMark ★★★★★
After a major career change, I felt completely lost. Amanda helped me clarify my values and reconnect with what truly matters to me. Our conversations prompted deep reflection that eventually led me to discover a path that feels more like mine.
— EmilyJ ★★★★★
Voice or text — whichever fits your day
Some days you want to type out what's on your mind. Other days it's easier to talk — and Amanda can do both. Voice sessions run up to 20 minutes as a phone-call-style conversation, and a summary posts back to the chat so you can return to it later. Bookmark what's useful, and Amanda remembers what you've been working on across weeks and months. Read more about how ACT works.
Private by design
Your conversations with Amanda are end-to-end encrypted. You can sign up anonymously — no email or phone number required — and your 7-day free trial starts at $1.99/week after that. No credit card needed to start.
Common questions about Amanda
Is Amanda for mild issues or serious burnout?
Both. Amanda is useful for ordinary stress and worry as well as the slow-rolling burnout that's been building for months. If you're in a genuine mental health crisis, please reach out to a professional or a crisis line — Amanda is coaching, not emergency care.
What's the difference between ACT and CBT?
CBT tests whether an unhelpful thought is accurate and tries to change it. ACT takes a step back and works on your relationship to the thought — noticing it, letting it pass, and acting on what matters anyway. Different posture, overlapping goal. Amanda uses the ACT posture.
Can Amanda help with sleep problems?
Yes. Amanda helps with the thoughts and patterns that keep you awake — the spinning mind at midnight, the bedtime routine that slipped away, the worry about tomorrow. For persistent physical sleep disorders, she'll also encourage a visit to your doctor.
I'm skeptical of "self-compassion" — is this for me?
Fair. Self-compassion in CFT isn't about being soft on yourself or letting things slide. It's about lowering the self-attack so you can actually see a problem clearly and act on it. People who are tough on themselves often get more done, not less, once the inner critic is quieter.
How is this different from a meditation app like Calm?
Meditation apps play content at you. Amanda has a conversation with you about your actual week — what's happening, what's stuck, what you want to try — and remembers across sessions. You can use both; they do different jobs.
Explore matching methods: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT).
Read about our research: The Stockholm University study.
Articles that dive deeper
- Feeling burnt out but can't stop? Why the pattern holds — and what slowly shifts it
- Unmotivated and can't explain why — what's often underneath
- Can't enjoy things anymore? Why — and when it's worth checking in with someone
- Feel numb emotionally? What numbness is actually doing
Verke provides coaching, not therapy or medical care. Results vary by individual. If you're in crisis, call 988 (US), 116 123 (UK/EU, Samaritans), or your local emergency services. Visit findahelpline.com for international resources.